Purpose and cause: için after a word and after a verb, üzere, “about to” with -mak üzere and -makta, çünkü and bu yüzden; how a Turkish letter ends — and a parcel for İzmir.
You’ve already heard one of today’s words — and almost certainly took it for something else. In Lesson 12 the doctor told Deniz Bol su için, and in Lesson 14 the pansiyon’s owner offered Önce bir çay için. That için is “drink!”: içmek as a polite request. Today’s için is a different word. Spelled exactly the same, it means “for”.
It’s a postposition: it comes after its word, like Lesson 6’s önce and sonra. “For Deniz” is Deniz için, “for my mum” is annem için — who first, then “for”.
Deniz için bir hediye aldık.— We bought a present for Deniz.
Bu çiçekler annem için.— These flowers are for my mum.
Pronouns have one quirk: before için they go into Lesson 7’s genitive — benim için, senin için, rather like “for my sake”. All except onlar, which stays plain: onlar için. And “this” becomes bunun için, “for this”.
benim için, senin için, onun için — bizim için, sizin için, onlar için— for me, for you, for him or her — for us, for you, for them
Bu çay senin için.— This tea’s for you.
Bunun için ne kadar ödedin?— How much did you pay for this?
And the question: Ne için? — “what for?”. Run together, it’s niçin. That completes Lesson 6’s family of whys: neden, “from what”; niye, “to what”; and now niçin, “for what”.
Bu tabak ne için? — Kurabiye için.— What’s this plate for? — For Kurabiye.
Niçin gülüyorsun?— What are you laughing for?
Try these yourself first, then check:
Benim için de bir çay, lütfen!
A tea for me too, please!
Bunun için teşekkür ederim.
Thank you for this.
Bu hediye kimin için?
Who’s this present for?
Sizin için ne yapabilirim?
What can I do for you?
2Görmek için: in order to
Now the big one. Put için after a -mak infinitive from Lesson 4 and you get “in order to”. Görmek için is “to see, so as to see” — literally “for seeing”. The purpose comes first, and what you do for it comes at the end.
Come, -mek, için: for coming — in order to come.
Seni görmek için geldim.— I came to see you.
Ekmek almak için fırına gittim.— I went to the bakery to buy bread.
Deniz İzmir’e Efe’yi görmek için gitti.— Deniz went to İzmir to see Efe.
Türkçe öğrenmek için her akşam Türk dizisi izliyorum.— I watch a Turkish dizi every evening to learn Turkish.
With verbs of going and coming, Turkish often says it shorter, with Lesson 22’s -maya: Ekmek almaya gittim means the same as Ekmek almak için gittim. Know them both when you hear them.
But -mak has no person: no “I”, no “you”. So what if the “so that” is about someone else — “I’m speaking slowly so that you understand”? Then you take -ma with a possessive ending, as in Lesson 22 — gelmem, gelmen, gelmesi — and add için. Anlaman için is “so that you understand”: literally “for your understanding”.
Understand, -ma, -n “your”, için: for your understanding.
Anlaman için yavaş konuşuyorum.— I’m speaking slowly so you’ll understand.
gelmem için, gelmen için, gelmesi için — gelmemiz için, gelmeniz için, gelmeleri için— so that I come, you come, they come — we, you, they
If you name whoever does it, they go into the genitive, just as in Lesson 22: Efe’nin uyuması için.
Efe’nin uyuması için ışığı kapattık.— We turned the light off so Efe could sleep.
“So as not to” — add Lesson 4’s negative -ma: gelmemek için, “so as not to come”. And about someone else, gelmemesi için — there they are again, two mas in a row, like Lesson 23’s gelmememi. Say gelmesi için and gelmemesi için out loud a couple of times: your tongue gets used to it before your eyes do.
Geç kalmamak için erken çıktım.— I left early so as not to be late.
Seni uyandırmamak için yavaş yavaş girdim.— I crept in so I wouldn’t wake you.
Kurabiye’nin kaçmaması için kapıyı kapattım.— I shut the door so Kurabiye wouldn’t run off.
3Görüşmek üzere: a stricter “in order to”
In Lesson 5 you said goodbye with Görüşmek üzere! — “see you soon”. Back then we took the phrase whole; now you can take it apart. Görüşmek is “to see each other, to meet”, and üzere is another “in order to”. TDK’s dictionary illustrates it with people parting so as to meet again in a few days. That’s Görüşmek üzere exactly: we part, in order to meet.
So üzere is nearly için, just stricter and drier: the news, notices and official letters are fond of it. And it has one rule: the same person does both things. You can’t say “so that you understand” with üzere — only anlaman için.
Takım kupayı almak üzere sahaya çıktı.— The team came out onto the pitch to receive the cup.
Deniz, Efe’yi görmek üzere İzmir’e gitti.— Deniz travelled to İzmir to see Efe.
Geç kalmamak üzere erken yola çıktık.— We set off early so as not to be late.
You saw the second example with için — same meaning, it just sounds like a line from a newspaper. When in doubt, say için: it always fits.
4Çıkmak üzereyim: about to, and -makta, in the middle of it
Üzere has a second job, and in everyday life you’ll need it more than the first. Give it a personal ending from Lesson 1 — -im, -sin — and it means “about to”. The phone rings, you’re by the door with your coat on: Çıkmak üzereyim!, “I’m just leaving!” TDK puts it plainly: üzere says something is drawing near.
Go out, -mak, üzere, y, -im: I’m about to go out.
Çıkmak üzereyim. Beş dakika sonra oradayım!— I’m just leaving. I’ll be there in five minutes!
Remember from Lesson 11 how long a Turkish “five minutes” lasts? Çıkmak üzereyim is sometimes said before the shoes are on, too.
Film başlamak üzere! Telefonlarınızı kapatın.— The film’s about to start! Turn your phones off.
Otobüs kalkmak üzere. Çabuk!— The bus is about to leave. Quick!
Yaz bitmek üzere.— Summer’s nearly over.
And with Lesson 13’s -(y)dı you get the most useful sentence in the lesson — people say it every day: “I was just about to!”
Tam seni aramak üzereydim!— I was just about to ring you!
And what if the action is already under way — started a while ago and still going? For that there’s -makta. You’ve met it twice. In Lesson 22: Şemsiye almakta fayda var — -mak in the locative, “in taking”. In Lesson 23, the newspapers’ -maktadır. Take off the -dır, add a personal ending, and you get okumaktayım: “I’m in the middle of reading” — literally “I am in reading”.
About to start — in the middle of it — done.
Mektubu okumak üzereyim. → Mektubu okumaktayım. → Mektubu okudum.— I’m about to read the letter. → I’m reading the letter. → I’ve read the letter.
It’s close to -yor — and in conversation you’d of course say okuyorum. -makta sounds official: it’s written in the news, on signs and in letters, and said out loud when someone wants to sound important. Sometimes on purpose, for a laugh:
Kurabiye şu anda uyumaktadır. Lütfen rahatsız etmeyin.— Kurabiye is currently sleeping. Please do not disturb.
Can hâlâ şirketten bir telefon beklemekte.— Can is still waiting for a call from the company.
5Neden? Çünkü… Because
You’ve been able to ask why since Lesson 6 — neden, niye, and now niçin too. Time to answer. “Because” is çünkü, a Persian word, says TDK. And if you speak English, there’s nothing to relearn: çünkü sits right where “because” does — after what happened, before the reason.
Bugün gelemiyorum, çünkü hastayım.— I can’t come today because I’m ill.
Şemsiyeni al, çünkü yağmur yağacak.— Take your umbrella — it’s going to rain.
Can hep telefonuna bakıyor, çünkü şirketten bir telefon bekliyor.— Can keeps looking at his phone because he’s waiting for a call from the company.
In conversation çünkü can answer all on its own. Children especially:
Efe, neden yatmıyorsun? — Çünkü!— Efe, why aren’t you going to bed? — Because!
6Bu yüzden: so, that’s why
Çünkü puts the reason after. You can turn it round, too: the reason first, then what follows — “so”. In conversation, what you’ll hear most is bu yüzden. You’ve known yüz since Lesson 2 as “a hundred”, but it’s also “a face”. Bu yüzden is literally “from this face”: for this reason.
Bugün gelemiyorum, çünkü hastayım. — Hastayım, bu yüzden bugün gelemiyorum.— I can’t come today because I’m ill. — I’m ill, so I can’t come today.
You can say the same with için from the first section: bunun için or onun için — “for this”, so “that’s why”. Which means onun için is both “for him or her” and “that’s why”; the sentence tells you which.
Hava çok sıcak, onun için denize giriyoruz.— It’s really hot, so we’re going for a swim.
And in the news and on notices, bu sebeple and bu nedenle, “for this reason”. Sebep is “a reason”, from Arabic; the -le is Lesson 12’s ile. And a surprise: Lesson 6’s neden turns out to be not just “why” but “a reason” too — TDK says so.
Hava çok kötü. Bu nedenle uçaklar geç kalkacak.— The weather is very bad. For this reason, flights will leave late.
And after a noun: “because of the rain”, “because of you” — yüzünden, the same “face”. Usually it’s something bad. For something good, Turkish says sayesinde, “thanks to”.
Yağmur yüzünden maça gitmedik.— We didn’t go to the match because of the rain.
Senin yüzünden geç kaldık!— We’re late because of you!
Ayşe sayesinde otobüsü kaçırmadık.— Thanks to Ayşe, we didn’t miss the bus.
7Türkiye up close: a letter that kisses your eyes
In Lesson 7, on the first morning of Bayram, the younger ones kissed their elders’ hands and touched them to their foreheads — el öpmek. In a Turkish letter that kiss lives on, only on paper. A letter opens with Sevgili, “dear”: Lesson 13’s sevgi, “love”, with Lesson 12’s -li — literally “with love”. And it ends with a kiss — where the kiss lands depends on who you’re writing to.
A zarf is an envelope. Inside it, a mektup — a letter.
Ellerinden öperim.— I kiss your hands (to an elder).
Gözlerinden öperim.— I kiss your eyes (to someone younger).
Take the second one apart yourself — you know every piece. Göz, -ler, Lesson 7’s -in, “your”, and -den. And öperim is Lesson 7’s öpmek in Lesson 21’s aorist. Turkish kisses “from” a place: gözlerinden, “from your eyes” — on the eyes.
Eye, -ler, -in “your”, -den; kiss, -er, -im.
That’s how people wrote a hundred years ago, too. The historian Mevlüt Kaya studied seven real letters from 1932 to 1942 from Beşikdüzü, near Trabzon — sent home by sons and brothers away doing their service. One, from 1942, goes exactly by the rule: Teyzemin … ellerinden öperim, hands for the aunt and the elders, and near the end Küçüklerin gözlerinden öperim, “I kiss the little ones’ eyes.” These letters send greetings to everyone by name, right down to the neighbours — selam, Lesson 5’s “hi”. And one writer, Kaya notes, even greets whoever will read the letter aloud to the family.
And one letter ends with a little rhyme: Git mektubum güle güle, cevabın gelsin alel acele. You know güle güle from Lesson 5 — “go laughing”. So the letter is sent off laughing, and the answer is asked to come alel acele, “in a mad rush”.
The letters went by post, and the post was nearly a hundred years old by then. PTT counts its birthday from 23 October 1840, when the postal ministry, Posta Nezareti, opened, and the first post office, Postahane-i Amire, in İstanbul, in the courtyard of the Yeni Cami. In 1909 the telephone joined the post and the telegraph — Posta, Telgraf, Telefon, and there are your three letters. Today they stand for Posta ve Telgraf Teşkilatı: the letters are the same, but the telephone has left the name.
And the words on the envelope. A postane is a post office, a “post house”: posta from Italian and hane, “house”, from Persian, says TDK. A zarf is an envelope — but the same dictionary knows another zarf: the metal holder a cup sits in, Lesson 15’s fincan for one. And pul has even more lives. It’s a stamp — and a checker in Lesson 4’s backgammon, and a fish’s scale, and thin flakes, like the ones in Lesson 15’s pul biber.
So if you write to a Turkish friend, open with Sevgili and close with the right kiss: eyes for a younger friend, hands for their grandmother. The letter waiting for you in “Reading” does just that. Guess who gets the eyes.
8Dialogue: a parcel for İzmir
The pot Can made at the pottery class in Lesson 21 is still sitting in his flat, and nobody has worked out what it is: a jug? a cup? Can is still waiting for the company to call, too. Meanwhile, he and Ayşe are off to the post office, the PTT. Efe and his family are still at anneanne Nermin’s in İzmir.
Görevli:
Sıradaki! Buyurun.
Next, please! How can I help?
Can:
Merhaba. Bu paketi İzmir’e göndermek istiyorum.
Hello. I’d like to send this parcel to İzmir.
Görevli:
Tabii. İçinde ne var?
Of course. What’s inside?
Can:
Bir testi.
A jug.
Ayşe:
Bir bardak.
A cup.
Can:
Testi! … Belki de vazo.
A jug! … Or a vase, maybe.
Görevli:
Formu doldurmak için bilmem lazım, efendim. Hangisi?
I need to know to fill in the form, sir. Which is it?
Can:
Çömlek atölyesinde ben yaptım. Ama adı yok. Efe karar versin.
I made it at a pottery class. But it hasn’t got a name. Let Efe decide.
Görevli:
Efe kim?
Who’s Efe?
Can:
Komşumuzun torunu. Dört yaşında. Şimdi İzmir’de, anneannesinin yanında.
Our neighbour’s grandson. He’s four. He’s in İzmir at the moment, at his grandmother’s.
Görevli:
Dört yaşında bir çocuk için bir çömlek mi?
A pot — for a four-year-old?
Can:
Evet. Efe her şeyi saklar: taşları, kalemleri, kurabiyeleri… Saklamak için bir kap lazım.
Yes. Efe keeps everything: stones, pencils, biscuits… He needs something to keep them in.
Ayşe:
Sebep o değil. Can o çömleği her gün görmemek için gönderiyor.
That’s not the reason. Can’s sending the pot so he won’t have to see it every day.
Can:
Hiç de değil!
No such thing!
Ayşe:
Ben her sabah ona bakıp gülüyorum. Bu yüzden.
Every morning I look at it and laugh. That’s why.
Görevli:
Peki. “Çömlek” yazıyorum. Yolda ona bir şey olmaması için iyice saralım.
Right. I’m putting “pot”. Let’s wrap it up well so nothing happens to it on the way.
Can:
Bunun için gazete kağıdı getirdim.
I brought newspaper for that.
Görevli:
Çok iyi. Bir kat… bir kat daha… bir kat daha.
Very good. One layer… another… and another.
Ayşe:
Can, paketin içinde çömlekten daha çok gazete var!
Can, there’s more newspaper in that parcel than pot!
Can:
Olsun. Yolda ona bir şey olmasın.
Never mind. As long as nothing happens to it on the way.
Görevli:
Kargo hızlı mı olsun, ucuz mu?
Do you want it fast, or cheap?
Can:
Hızlı. Ama… ucuz da olsun.
Fast. But… cheap too.
Görevli:
Hem hızlı hem de ucuz olmaz, efendim.
It can’t be both fast and cheap, sir.
Can:
O zaman hızlı.
Fast, then.
Görevli:
Çabuk olalım: kargo arabası çıkmak üzere!
Then let’s be quick: the van’s about to leave!
Ayşe:
Şirketten ses var mı?
Any word from the company?
Can:
Yok. Can Bey hâlâ beklemektedir.
No. Mr Can is still in the process of waiting.
Ayşe:
Ha! Bu yüzden buradasın. Beklememek için!
Aha! So that’s why you’re here. So you don’t have to wait!
Can:
Beklememek için değil. Efe için! … Biraz da beklememek için.
Not so I don’t have to wait. For Efe! … And a little bit so I don’t have to wait.
Görevli:
Paketiniz yarın İzmir’de. İyi günler!
Your parcel will be in İzmir tomorrow. Have a good day!
Can:
Teşekkürler, kolay gelsin!
Thanks — hope the day goes easy!
A görevli is a member of staff, someone on duty — at the post office, the station, the museum. Sıradaki is “next”: Lesson 13’s sıra, a queue, with -daki, “the one in”. Doldurmak is “to fill in”, from Lesson 3’s dolu, “full”. Saklamak is “to keep, to hide” — it’s where Lesson 9’s saklambaç, hide-and-seek, comes from. Sarmak is “to wrap”. A kat isn’t only Lesson 11’s floor; it’s a layer too. In Türkiye kargo is the parcel service, and a kargo arabası its van. Hiç de değil is “no such thing!”. Now count the “in order to”s in one conversation: doldurmak için, saklamak için, görmemek için, olmaması için, beklememek için — and one çıkmak üzere. As for beklemektedir, Can says it like a newsreader — on purpose.
9Reading
Three days have gone by. Can’s parcel has reached İzmir, and Efe is still there at anneanne Nermin’s — he did go running with her in the end, as he promised last lesson. Efe can’t write yet, but he has his sister Zeynep, who already wrote his CV for him in Lesson 23.
İzmir’den bir mektup
Deniz gets a letter. It’s addressed to quite a few people — one of them has four paws.
Cuma sabahı Deniz’in kapısı çaldı.
On Friday morning Deniz’s doorbell rang.
Kapıda postacı vardı.
The postman was at the door.
— Deniz Bey? Size bir mektup var. İzmir’den.
“Mr Deniz? There’s a letter for you. From İzmir.”
Zarfın üstünde büyük, renkli harfler vardı:
On the envelope were big, colourful letters:
“DENİZ ABİ, CAN ABİ, AYŞE ABLA, SEVİM BABAANNE VE KURABİYE İÇİN”
“FOR DENİZ ABİ, CAN ABİ, AYŞE ABLA, SEVİM BABAANNE AND KURABİYE”
Deniz güldü ve herkesi merdivene çağırdı.
Deniz laughed and called everyone out to the stairs.
Deniz zarfı açıp okumaya başladı.
Deniz opened the envelope and began to read.
“Sevgili Deniz abi, sevgili Can abi, sevgili Ayşe abla, sevgili babaannem ve sevgili Kurabiye,
“Dear Deniz abi, dear Can abi, dear Ayşe abla, dear Babaanne and dear Kurabiye,
Nasılsınız? Biz çok iyiyiz.
How are you? We’re very well.
Bu mektubu Zeynep yazıyor, çünkü ben henüz yazı yazamıyorum. Ama cümleler benim!
Zeynep is writing this letter, because I can’t write yet. But the sentences are mine!
Can abinin paketi geldi. İçinde çok gazete vardı.
Can abi’s parcel came. There was a lot of newspaper inside.
Gazetenin içinde bir çömlek vardı.
And inside the newspaper there was a pot.
Ama bu ne? Testi mi, bardak mı, vazo mu? Kimse bilmiyor.
But what is it? A jug, a cup, a vase? Nobody knows.
Bu yüzden onu her gün başka bir iş için kullandık.
So every day we used it for something different.
Pazartesi anneannem çiçek koymak için aldı. Vazo oldu.
On Monday Anneanne took it to put flowers in. It was a vase.
Salı Zeynep kalemlerini koymak için aldı. Kalemlerin evi oldu.
On Tuesday Zeynep took it for her pencils. It was a house for pencils.
Çarşamba ben taşlarımı saklamak için aldım. Taşların evi oldu.
On Wednesday I took it to keep my stones in. It was a house for stones.
Perşembe babam su içmek için aldı. Testi oldu.
On Thursday Dad took it to drink water out of. It was a jug.
Ama su aktı! Çünkü çömleğin altında küçük bir delik var.
But the water ran out! Because there’s a little hole in the bottom of the pot.
Babam önce güldü, sonra gömleğini değiştirdi.
Dad laughed first, then changed his shirt.
Bu yüzden artık su için değil.
So it isn’t for water any more.
Anneannemle koşuya çıktım!
I went running with Anneanne!
Erken kalkmak için babamın telefonunu yastığımın altına koydum.
To get up early, I put Dad’s phone under my pillow.
Telefon beşte çaldı. Ben uyanmadım, babam uyandı.
The phone rang at five. I didn’t wake up — Dad did.
Ama ben de altıda kalkıp koştum. Anneannem çok hızlı. Ben de hızlıyım.
But I got up at six and ran too. Anneanne is really fast. So am I.
On dakika koştum. Sonra bankta oturup denize baktım. Deniz abi gibi!
I ran for ten minutes. Then I sat on a bench and looked at the sea. Like Deniz abi!
Yaz bitmek üzere. Tatilimiz de bitmek üzere.
Summer’s nearly over. Our holiday’s nearly over too.
Pazar günü eve dönüyoruz. Çömleği de getiriyorum.
We’re coming home on Sunday. I’m bringing the pot.
I kiss the grown-ups’ hands. I kiss Kurabiye’s eyes.
Görüşmek üzere! Efe
See you soon! Efe
Not: Efe şu anda yanımda gevrek yemektedir. Zeynep”
P.S. Efe is at this moment eating a gevrek beside me. Zeynep”
Herkes güldü. Can mektubu bir kere daha okudu.
Everyone laughed. Can read the letter again.
— Delik mi var? O zaman biliyorum. O bir saksı!
“There’s a hole? Then I know. It’s a flowerpot!”
— Saksı mı?
“A flowerpot?”
— Evet. Saksının altında her zaman bir delik vardır, çünkü çiçeğin fazla suyu oradan akar.
“Yes. A flowerpot always has a hole in the bottom, because that’s where the plant’s extra water runs out.”
Ayşe güldü:
Ayşe laughed:
— Peki, bunu neden şimdi söylüyorsun?
“So why are you only saying this now?”
— Çünkü ben de şimdi anladım!
“Because I’ve only just worked it out myself!”
Sevim teyzenin bir fikri vardı:
Sevim teyze had an idea:
— Pazar günü saksı da dönüyor. Ben ona bir çiçek alırım.
“The pot’s coming home on Sunday too. I’ll buy a flower for it.”
Kurabiye zarfın üstüne yatıp uyudu. Zarf, Kurabiye’nin yatağı oldu.
Kurabiye lay down on the envelope and went to sleep. The envelope was Kurabiye’s bed.
A postacı is a postman: posta with Lesson 10’s -cı. Renkli is “colourful”: renk plus -li. Babaanne is a father’s mother, from Lesson 8: Sevim teyze is Efe’s dad’s mum, and Nermin is his mum’s, his anneanne. Kalemlerin evi, “the pencils’ house”, is Lesson 8’s izafet. A delik is a hole, a saksı a flowerpot. Lesson 16’s not was a mark; at the end of a letter it’s a P.S. Zeynep writes hers in the newspapers’ -mektedir — like Can at the post office. And notice who gets the eyes: Efe kisses the grown-ups’ hands, and only Kurabiye, the one person younger than him, on the eyes.
1Why is Zeynep writing the letter?
2What happened on Thursday?
3So what is Can’s pot?
10The lesson’s new words
Everything new from today, in the order it turned up. Words you’ll know on sight — form, and Lesson 21’s vazo — are left out, and you can build renkli yourself. As for -mak için, -ması için, -mak üzere and -makta, they aren’t words but tools: they work with any verb.
New words
içinfor; -mak için — in order to
niçinwhat for, why
görüşmekto see each other, to meet
üzerein order to; -mak üzere — about to
çünkübecause
bu yüzdenso, that’s why
sebepreason
yüzündenbecause of
sayesindethanks to
sevgilidear (in a letter)
Ellerinden öperimI kiss your hands (to an elder)
Gözlerinden öperimI kiss your eyes (to someone younger)
selamgreetings; selam söylemek — to say hello for someone
Say it out loud first, then open the answer. Got it wrong? Perfect — that’s what you came here for. Peeking first is öğrenmemek için: so as not to learn.
I came to see you
Seni görmek için geldim.
I’m speaking slowly so you’ll understand
Anlaman için yavaş konuşuyorum.
I left early so as not to be late
Geç kalmamak için erken çıktım.
I was just about to ring you!
Tam seni aramak üzereydim!
I can’t come today because I’m ill
Bugün gelemiyorum, çünkü hastayım.
it’s really hot, so we’re going for a swim
Hava çok sıcak, bu yüzden denize giriyoruz.
12Check yourself
Six items. A miss shows you the right answer straight away, so getting it wrong here isn’t a loss — it’s practice.
1Match each picture to its word.
2Fill in the right form: “We turned the light off so Efe could sleep.”
Efe’nin?için ışığı kapattık.
3Fill in the right words: “I’m speaking slowly so you’ll understand.”
?yavaş konuşuyorum.
4Çıkmak üzereyim means…
5Fill in the right word: “I can’t come today because I’m ill.”
Bugün gelemiyorum,?hastayım.
6You’re writing to a Turkish friend’s grandmother. How do you end the letter?
13Homework
All of it out loud. What for? Because the ear remembers better than the eye.
Why are you learning Turkish? Three reasons: … için Türkçe öğreniyorum.
Three things you do for someone else’s sake: Çocukların uyuması için …, Annemin yorulmaması için …
Something you’re about to do today — and something you were just about to do when you got interrupted: … üzereyim, Tam … üzereydim.
One “why” from your day, answered both ways: …, çünkü … and …, bu yüzden ….
A short letter to Efe: open with Sevgili Efe, tell him what you’re doing and why, and close with the right kiss.