Lesson 7 — Kendimi bildim bileli… Since when, and for how long
-dır for “for”: üç yıldır; -dan beri for “since”: sabahtan beri; -dığımdan beri and -alı for “since something happened”: başladığımdan beri, görüşmeyeli kırk yıl oldu; the number forty — and an architect who spent half an hour pushing a door marked “Pull”.
1üç yıldır: for how long
English says “I’ve lived here for three years”: the present perfect, and “for”. Turkish stays in the present — -yor, or the person ending of buradayım — and puts -dır on the stretch of time itself: üç yıldır, “for three years”.
It looks like the -dır of signs in Course 1’s Lesson 23 — Müze pazartesi günleri kapalıdır — and it changes the same way: four vowels, and after the hard consonants of Fıstıkçı Şahap the d turns into a t. Here it sits on a stretch of time and says how long something has been going on:
yıl, “year”, and -dır: üç yıldır, “for three years”.
bir saattir, iki gündür, üç aydır, beş yıldır— for an hour, for two days, for three months, for five years
saatlerdir, günlerdir, yıllardır— for hours, for days, for years
A kum saati, an hourglass: how long it’s been.
Üç yıldır İstanbul’da yaşıyorum.— I’ve been living in İstanbul for three years.
Defne iki saattir bu planı çiziyor.— Defne’s been drawing this plan for two hours.
Yarım saattir buradayım.— I’ve been here for half an hour.
Günlerdir yağmur yağıyor.— It’s been raining for days.
The negative and the question stay where they always are, in the verb. “How long?” is Kaç yıldır?, Kaç saattir?, or just Ne zamandır?:
Bir haftadır telefonum hiç çalmıyor.— My phone hasn’t rung once in a week.
Kaç yıldır Türkçe öğreniyorsunuz? — İki yıldır.— How long have you been learning Turkish? — Two years.
Ne zamandır bekliyorsun? — On dakikadır.— How long have you been waiting? — Ten minutes.
2sabahtan beri: since when
-dır answers “how long?”. “Since when?” is -dan beri. Course 1’s Lesson 11 had sabahtan akşama kadar, “from morning till night”. With beri the morning has no night: the count runs up to now. TDK’s dictionary puts beri just that way: -den bu yana, literally “from … this way”, up to today.
A takvim, a calendar: since which day.
sabahtan beri, cumadan beri, ocaktan beri, 2021’den beri— since this morning, since Friday, since January, since 2021
Sabahtan beri bir şey yemedim.— I haven’t eaten a thing since this morning.
Ocaktan beri her sabah yürüyorum.— I’ve been walking every morning since January.
Kerem saat üçten beri hamamda.— Kerem’s been at the hamam since three o’clock.
-dan beri takes a stretch of time too, and then it means the same as -dır:
üç yıldır = üç yıldan beri— for three years
But a date, a day of the week, an hour on the clock is a point to count from, and for a point the lesson uses -dan beri — the same line English draws between “for” and “since”:
Üç yıldır buradayım. — 2023’ten beri buradayım.— I’ve been here for three years. — I’ve been here since 2023.
The question for a point is Ne zamandan beri?. And two set phrases: o günden beri, “since that day”, and eskiden beri, “from way back, all along”:
Ne zamandan beri Türkçe öğreniyorsunuz? — Geçen yıldan beri.— Since when have you been learning Turkish? — Since last year.
Orhan Bey eskiden beri bu evde oturuyor.— Orhan Bey has lived in this house for ages.
3başladığımdan beri: since something happened
And when the count starts not from a date but from something that happened? “Since I started learning Turkish.” To the verb you add -dık — the same one as in Course 1 Lesson 24’s -dıktan sonra — then a possessive ending that says who did it, then -dan beri.
Before the possessive’s vowel the k turns into ğ — the same softening as tabak → tabağı in Course 1’s Lesson 7:
The stem başla, -dık (the k now a ğ), -ım for “I”, -dan — and beri after it.
Person by person:
ben → başladığımdan beri— I → since I started
sen → başladığından beri— you → since you started
o → başladığından beri— he, she → since he or she started
biz → başladığımızdan beri— we → since we started
siz → başladığınızdan beri— you → since you started
onlar → başladıklarından beri— they → since they started
sen and o end up the same, built two ways: for o an n slips in after the -ı, as in Course 1 Lesson 7’s arabası → arabasına: başladığı + n + dan. For onlar the ending starts with a consonant, -ları, so the k stays a k.
The vowel follows harmony, four ways, and after a hard consonant the d turns into t, as in -dıktan sonra:
geldiğimden, aldığımdan, okuduğumdan, gördüğümden beri— since I came, took, read, saw
gittiğimden, çıktığımdan, içtiğimden beri— since I went, left, drank
Türkçe öğrenmeye başladığımdan beri her gün yeni bir kelime öğreniyorum.— Since I started learning Turkish, I’ve been learning a new word every day.
Bu büroya geldiğinizden beri hiç tatil yapmadınız.— You haven’t had a single holiday since you came to this office.
Sen gittiğinden beri ev çok sessiz.— The house has been so quiet since you left.
The possessive says who did it, and that needn’t be who the rest of the sentence is about: in the last one, “you” left, and it’s the house that’s quiet.
And an old acquaintance: Duyduğuma göre… — “From what I’ve heard…” — from Course 1’s Lesson 18. You took it whole then; now you can see what it’s made of: duy, -duğ, -um for “I”, then -a and göre — “going by what I heard”.
4geleli and görüşmeyeli: it’s been so long since
There’s a shorter way. Add -alı or -eli to the stem — the last vowel picks which, as with -lar / -ler — with a y after a vowel: arayalı. This form has no person of its own. Put a stretch of time and oldu after it, and you have “it’s been so long since…”:
The stem gel and -eli: “since coming”.
Büroya geleli iki saat oldu.— It’s been two hours since I got to the office.
Kerem hamama gideli bir saat oldu.— It’s been an hour since Kerem went to the hamam.
Who did it isn’t in the form; the words round it say — a name, a pronoun, the conversation:
Ben geleli herkes çok çalışıyor!— Since I arrived, everyone’s been working so hard!
There’s a full form too: the same verb first in -dı, with its person, then -alı: geldim geleli, “ever since I came”. That’s where the lesson’s title comes from: Kendimi bildim bileli, literally “since I knew myself” — for as long as I can remember. TDK lists it as a phrase of its own: öteden beri, eskiden beri, “all along, from way back”.
Büroya geldim geleli telefon çalıyor.— The phone hasn’t stopped ringing since I got to the office.
Kendimi bildim bileli çay içiyorum.— I’ve been drinking tea for as long as I can remember.
And the negative: -mayalı, -meyeli. Turkish counts from when the “not” began: görüşmeyeli, “since not seeing each other”. English counts from the other end: “since we last saw each other”:
Görüşmeyeli çok oldu!— It’s been ages!
Kahve içmeyeli üç gün oldu.— It’s been three days since I last had a coffee.
Tatile çıkmayalı iki yıl oldu.— It’s been two years since I last went on holiday.
5One fact, four ways
Here’s one fact: Bu evi 2021’de aldık. Hâlâ bu evde oturuyoruz. — “We bought this house in 2021. We still live in it.” And here it is, told all four ways:
Beş yıldır bu evde oturuyoruz.— We’ve lived in this house for five years.
2021’den beri bu evde oturuyoruz.— We’ve lived in this house since 2021.
Bu evi aldığımızdan beri burada oturuyoruz.— We’ve lived here ever since we bought this house.
Bu evi alalı beş yıl oldu.— It’s been five years since we bought this house.
In short, the question each one answers:
beş yıldır— -dır: how long?
2021’den beri— -dan beri: since when? And with a stretch of time, “how long?”
aldığımızdan beri— -dığımdan beri: since what happened?
alalı beş yıl oldu— -alı … oldu: how long since it happened?
In English the last two both come out as “since”. They differ in person too: aldığımızdan has one, -ımız for “we”, while alalı has none of its own — who bought the house, the conversation tells you.
6Türkiye up close: forty
Last lesson, the hamamcı said Kırk yıl bu hamamda çalıştım, “I worked in this hamam for forty years.” Forty turns up everywhere in Turkish. The TDV encyclopaedia says the number holds an important place in old Turkic culture: in the epics that came from Central Asia, a hero has forty warriors beside him, and a lady forty maidens around her.
A fincan, a Turkish coffee cup — with forty years of memory.
Course 1’s Lesson 15 had the proverb Bir fincan kahvenin kırk yıl hatırı vardır, “one cup of coffee is remembered for forty years”: a small kindness isn’t forgotten. TDV gives it with bitter coffee: Acı kahvenin kırk yıl hatırı vardır.
Often nobody is counting the forty at all. Look up kırk dereden su getirmek, “to fetch water from forty streams”, in TDK’s dictionary, and it sends you on to bin dereden su getirmek, where there are a thousand streams: to come up with reason after reason to talk someone round. And kırk tarakta bezi olmak is the same as her tarakta bezi olmak, with “every” in place of the forty: someone with a finger in every pie. Forty here just means “a lot”.
In the dialogue below, Zehra Hanım says kırk yılda bir — literally “once in forty years”. In English it would be once in a blue moon.
Forty is on the map too. Among the place names with the number in them, TDV lists Kırklareli, Kırkpınar — “forty springs” — and Kırkçeşme, “forty fountains”.
7Dialogue: the door that shut by itself
August, a Friday, twenty to four. At five the whole office is expected at Orhan Bey’s: the window’s finished, and it’s time for that tea. And Kerem has been at the hamam in Üsküdar since three: he’s finally gone to measure the dome — last time he forgot. Defne, at the office, rings him.
Çekiniz: “Pull”. Signs on doors are worth reading.
Defne:
Alo, Kerem? Neredesin? Saat dörde yirmi var!
Hello, Kerem? Where are you? It’s twenty to four!
Kerem:
Hamamdayım, Defne. Yarım saattir buradayım ve kapı açılmıyor!
I’m at the hamam, Defne. I’ve been here for half an hour and the door won’t open!
Defne:
Saat üçten beri hamamdasın! İçeride mi kaldın?
You’ve been at the hamam since three! Are you stuck inside?
Kerem:
Evet. Kubbeyi ölçtüğümden beri bu kapının önündeyim. Hamamcı da yok.
Yes. I’ve been standing at this door ever since I measured the dome. And the hamamcı isn’t here.
Defne:
Onu aradın mı?
Have you rung him?
Kerem:
Aradım. Hamamcıyı arayalı yirmi dakika oldu. “Geliyorum” dedi, ama hâlâ yok.
I have. It’s been twenty minutes since I rang him. He said “I’m coming”, but there’s still no sign of him.
Defne:
Bir dakika, Zehra Hanım geldi. Seni hoparlöre alıyorum.
Hang on, Zehra Hanım’s here. I’m putting you on speaker.
Zehra:
Kerem Bey, merak etmeyin, birazdan çıkarsınız. Kubbeyi bari ölçtünüz mü?
Kerem Bey, don’t worry, you’ll be out in a minute. Did you at least measure the dome?
Kerem:
Ölçtüm, Zehra Hanım. On iki metre. Yarım saattir kubbeye bakıyorum.
I did, Zehra Hanım. Twelve metres. I’ve been looking at the dome for half an hour.
Zehra:
Kırk yılda bir ölçmeyi unutmadınız, Kerem Bey. Tebrikler!
You didn’t forget to measure — that happens once in a blue moon, Kerem Bey. Congratulations!
Defne:
Kerem, kapıda ne yazıyor?
Kerem, what does it say on the door?
Kerem:
Kapıda mı? Bir dakika… “Çekiniz.”
On the door? Hang on… “Pull.”
Defne:
Peki sen yarım saattir ne yapıyorsun?
And what have you been doing for half an hour?
Kerem:
İtiyorum!
Pushing!
Zehra:
Kerem Bey… çekin.
Kerem Bey… pull.
Kerem:
Açıldı!
It’s open!
Defne:
Geçen ay bu kapı kendi kendine açıldı, bu ay kendi kendine kapandı!
Last month this door opened by itself, and this month it shut by itself!
Zehra:
Şimdi doğru Orhan Bey’e. Saat beşte çay var, geç kalmayın!
Now straight to Orhan Bey’s. Tea’s at five — don’t be late!
Kerem:
Geç kalmam, Zehra Hanım. Ama bu kapıyı bir daha itmem!
I won’t be late, Zehra Hanım. But I’m never pushing this door again!
How long: yarım saattir, three times; since what time: saat üçten beri; since what: ölçtüğümden beri; how long it’s been: arayalı yirmi dakika oldu. Çekiniz is Course 1 Lesson 10’s -ınız, the one you read on signs: “pull”. “Push” is İtiniz, from itmek. bari is “at least”, birazdan “any minute now”, hoparlör the speaker, and kapanmak “to shut”, the pair of açılmak. And Defne’s kendi kendine is last lesson’s — about the same door.
8Reading
Five o’clock, at Orhan Bey’s. The garden window is finished and the tea is poured. Orhan Bey stands up, glass in hand. Everything below is his speech; the line with a dash is his wife’s. Read it through; open a translation only where you’re stuck.
Pencerenin çayı
Orhan Bey’s speech over tea at the new window.
Hepiniz hoş geldiniz!
Welcome, all of you!
Ben bu evde doğdum.
I was born in this house.
Kendimi bildim bileli bu duvara bakıyorum.
For as long as I can remember, I’ve been looking at this wall.
Babam bu pencerenin ilk resmini 1952’de çizdi.
My father drew the first picture of this window in 1952.
Yetmiş dört yıldır bu evde herkes bu pencereyi konuşuyor.
For seventy-four years everyone in this house has been talking about this window.
Bugünden sonra konuşmayacağız; bakacağız!
From today on we won’t talk about it; we’ll look out of it!
Bu bahar sizinle tanıştım.
This spring I met you.
Sizinle tanıştığımdan beri bu evde her şey değişti.
Since I met you, everything in this house has changed.
Önce kurul, sonra dolabın arkasındaki kitap, sonra pencere…
First the board, then the book behind the cupboard, then the window…
Eşim Meral de burada.
My wife Meral is here too.
Meral’le otuz yıldır bu evde oturuyoruz.
Meral and I have lived in this house for thirty years.
Otuz yıldır her akşam ona bu duvarı anlatıyorum.
For thirty years I’ve been telling her about this wall every evening.
O da her akşam aynı şeyi söylüyor: “Duvar duvardır, Orhan.”
And every evening she says the same thing: “A wall is a wall, Orhan.”
Bugün aramızda eski bir dostumuz da var: hamamcımız.
Today an old friend of ours is with us too: our hamamcı.
Çocukken babamla onun hamamına gittim ve sıcaklığı hiç sevmedim.
As a boy I went to his hamam with my father, and I never liked the hot room.
Görüşmeyeli kırk yıl oldu!
It’s been forty years since we last saw each other!
Hamamcımız bir şey daha anlattı: Kerem Bey bugün bir saat hamamda kaldı.
Our hamamcı told me something else: Kerem Bey stayed in the hamam for an hour today.
Ama yine de zamanında geldi!
But he still got here on time!
Pencere bittiğinden beri her sabah çayımı burada içiyorum.
Ever since the window was finished, I’ve had my morning tea here.
Gül ağacına bakıyorum.
I look at the rose bush.
Babamın kitabı da yanımda, pencerenin önünde.
And my father’s book is beside me, by the window.
— Orhan, çaylar soğuyor!
“Orhan, the tea’s getting cold!”
Peki, peki. Son bir şey.
All right, all right. One last thing.
Kerem Bey, penaltıyı çaydan sonra anlatacağım.
Kerem Bey, I’ll explain the penalty after tea.
Meral otuz yıldır anlamıyor, ama siz bu kere anlarsınız!
Meral hasn’t got it in thirty years, but this time you will!
Afiyet olsun!
Enjoy your tea!
doğmak is Course 1 Lesson 13’s “to be born”, soğumak Course 1 Lesson 18’s “to cool down”, and zamanında is “on time”. Duvar duvardır has Course 1 Lesson 23’s -dır, said firmly, like a law: “a wall is a wall”. Dolabın arkasındaki kitap was the title of Orhan Bey’s letter in Lesson 5, and bu kere anlarsınız comes from the same letter.
1How long has Orhan Bey been looking at this wall?
2What does Meral Hanım say every evening?
3When will Orhan Bey explain the penalty to Kerem?
9The lesson’s new words
These are the words the lesson brought in for the first time, in the order you met them. The forms themselves — -dır, -dığımdan beri, -alı — stay in their sections; the words and names that turn up only in “Türkiye up close” stay there too.
New words
kum saatihourglass
takvimcalendar
berisince
eskiden berifrom way back, all along
kendimi bildim bilelifor as long as I can remember
Out loud first, then the answer. Each one needs one of the lesson’s four forms. Getting it wrong and then checking is exactly what this is for.
I’ve been living in İstanbul for three years
Üç yıldır İstanbul’da yaşıyorum.
I haven’t eaten anything since this morning
Sabahtan beri bir şey yemedim.
how long have you been learning Turkish?
Ne zamandır Türkçe öğreniyorsunuz?
since I came to the office, I’ve been working a lot
Büroya geldiğimden beri çok çalışıyorum.
it’s been ages!
Görüşmeyeli çok oldu!
I’ve loved tea for as long as I can remember
Kendimi bildim bileli çayı seviyorum.
11Check yourself
Six items. A miss shows you the right answer straight away, and why.
1Match each picture to its word.
2Fill in the right word: “I’ve been here for three years.”
Üç?buradayım.
3How do you say “I’ve been working at this office since 2024”?
4How do you say “The house has been quiet since you left”?
5Görüşmeyeli on yıl oldu — what does it mean?
6Kendimi bildim bileli — what does it mean?
12Homework
Two to say aloud, three to write. Write by hand or in your phone’s notes, then read it aloud: the ear finds what the eye let through.
Your life in -dır, out loud: how long you’ve lived where you live, worked where you work, known your best friend, been learning Turkish. Then the same with dates and -dan beri.
-dığımdan beri through every person, out loud, with one verb: başladığımdan beri, başladığından beri… — all the way to onlar. Then with gelmek and gitmek.
What has changed since you started learning Turkish? Five or six sentences with -dığımdan beri and -dır.
Someone you haven’t seen for a long time. How long it’s been — -mayalı … oldu — and what you’ll say when you meet.
A short speech, like Orhan Bey’s — for a friend, a colleague, a house or a city. With kendimi bildim bileli, -dır and -dan beri.