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Lesson 2 — Anlaştık! Football, and each other

The words of a match and its rules; -⁠ış for “each other” and “all at once”, birbiri and -⁠laş; Kerem and Defne tell a client “no”, and the office plays the engineers — and finds two hard hats.

1Gol! The words of a match

In Course 1’s Lesson 24 you asked Hangi takımı tutuyorsun?, and you know takım, saha, hakem, taraftar and gol atmak. Today it’s the match itself: who stands where, how long it lasts and how it ends. In Türkiye this isn’t a niche for fans: last night’s match comes up in taxis, in lifts and at meetings while everyone waits for the boss. Start with the pitch:

kale goal
kaleci goalkeeper
forma shirt, kit
atkı scarf

Kale is also “a fortress”, and the kaleci is the one who holds it, with Lesson 10’s -⁠ci, as in gazeteci. In front of him are the defans, in the middle the orta saha, up front the forvet. They came from English, and the Turkish dictionary offers its own, savunma and ileri uç, but these are the ones you’ll hear in the stands. Cover the translations and test yourself:

defans
orta saha
forvet
rakip
ilk yarı, ikinci yarı
devre arası
pas
şut çekmek
sarı kart, kırmızı kart
ofsayt
penaltı

And how it ended. You know kazanmak from Lesson 4 and kaybetmek from Lesson 24; the sports news loves one more pair: yenmek, “to beat someone”, with the accusative, and yenilmek, “to lose to someone”, with the dative. Yenilmek is built the way Turkish builds its passive; we’ll get to that later, so for now take the word whole:

Bizim takım rakibi yendi.— Our team beat the other side.
Dün akşam rakibe yenildik.— Last night we lost to the other side.
Maç kaç kaç bitti? — Berabere bitti: iki iki.— What was the final score? — A draw: two all.
Bu yıl on galibiyet, iki yenilgi.— Ten wins and two defeats this year.

Galibiyet is a win, yenilgi a defeat. Newspapers often write mağlubiyet for yenilgi, an Arabic word: recognise it, and say yenilgi yourself. That’s the one TDK’s dictionary points you to.

2The rules of the game: -⁠malı on the pitch

First, a look back at Lesson 1 — through football. The rules of the game are exactly what that lesson was about: what a player should do (-⁠malı), what he has no choice about (zorunda), and what he’s allowed to do (Lesson 21’s -⁠abilir).

Her takımda on bir oyuncu var.— Each team has eleven players.
İlk yarı kırk beş dakika, ikinci yarı da kırk beş dakika.— The first half is forty-five minutes, and so is the second.
Sadece kaleci topu elle tutabilir.— Only the goalkeeper can pick the ball up.
Diğer oyuncular topa elle dokunmamalı.— The other players mustn’t touch the ball with their hands.
Kalecinin forması farklı olmalı.— The goalkeeper’s shirt has to look different.
Hakem kırmızı kart gösterdi. Oyuncu sahadan çıkmak zorunda.— The referee showed a red card. The player has to leave the pitch.
Hakem düdüğü çalmadan oyun başlamaz.— Play doesn’t start until the referee blows the whistle.

The most mysterious rule is ofsayt, offside. In short: when a team-mate plays the pass, an attacker in the other side’s half needs at least two of its players to be no further from their goal than he is — usually the goalkeeper and a defender. If only the keeper is left in front of him: ofsayt. You now know more than half the stadium, and you have something to argue about:

Ofsayt değil! Önünde iki oyuncu vardı!— That’s not offside! There were two players in front of him!

3Tanıştık: “each other” in one ending

You’ve been saying it since Course 1’s first lesson: Görüşürüz!, “see you”. Now take it apart: gör is “see”, -⁠üş is “each other”, -⁠ür-üz is “we” in the aorist. Word for word: “we’ll see each other”. That -⁠üş is today’s grammar.

Stem, -⁠üş “each other”, -⁠ür, -⁠üz — “see you”.

In Turkish it’s called işteş çatı. Don’t let it scare you: TDK’s dictionary gives işteş as “a partner in a shared job”, and çatı, the “voice”, is the same word as last lesson’s “roof”. The ending is -⁠ış, -⁠iş, -⁠uş or -⁠üş, by the four teams, like Lesson 2’s mı. After a vowel, a bare -⁠ş is enough:

tanımak → tanışmak— know → meet, know each other
bakmak → bakışmak— look → look at each other
bulmak → buluşmak— find → meet up
anlamak → anlaşmak— understand → agree, get on
öpmek → öpüşmek— kiss → kiss each other

You know buluşmak from Lesson 11 and görüşmek from Lesson 25: they were like this all along. And anlaşmak has travelled furthest from anlamak: “understand each other” is “agree”. Hence Anlaştık!, “it’s a deal!”

Who with is told by Lesson 12’s -⁠la. And the verb takes no object: the “each other” is already inside it. That’s the trap if you think in English, where you “met Kerem”: Kerem’i tanıyorum is “I know Kerem”, but “I met Kerem” is Kerem’le tanıştım, “I got acquainted with Kerem”:

The stem tanı, -⁠ş after a vowel, -⁠tı, -⁠k — “we met”.
Kerem’le dün tanıştım.— I met Kerem yesterday.
Kerem’le Defne ilk gün tanıştı.— Kerem and Defne met on the first day.
Saat altıda kapıda buluşalım.— Let’s meet at the door at six.

From there it’s an ordinary verb: any tense, the negative, the question, -⁠malı — everything where it always is:

Siz tanışıyor musunuz? — Hayır, tanışmıyoruz.— Do you two know each other? — No, we don’t.
Tanışalım: ben Defne.— Let me introduce myself: I’m Defne.
Yarın müşteriyle görüşeceğiz.— Tomorrow we’re meeting the client.
Daha anlaşmadık.— We haven’t agreed yet.
Fiyatta anlaşmalıyız.— We need to agree on the price.

And don’t mix it up with Lesson 23. There, bakış and gülüş are nouns, “a look” and “a smile”: nothing after the -⁠ış, or a case. Here, bakışmak is a verb, and a tense and a person follow the -⁠ış: bakıştık. Ciddi bir bakış is a serious look; Bakıştık is “we looked at each other”.

4Birbirimize: “each other” as a word

Not every verb has an -⁠ış. For the rest there’s the word birbiri, “one another”, from bir and bir. You add a possessive — whose “each other”: ours, yours or theirs — and the case the verb asks for:

birbirimizi, birbirinizi, birbirlerini— each other — us, you, them
Birbirimizi çok iyi tanıyoruz.— We know each other very well.
Birbirinize bakmayın, bana bakın!— Don’t look at each other, look at me!
Onlar birbirlerini seviyor.— They love each other.
Birbirimizle her gün konuşuyoruz.— We talk to each other every day.

The case is the one the verb takes anyway: bakmak asks for the dative (bana bak), so birbirimize baktık; sevmek the accusative, so birbirlerini. In the third person you’ll also hear birbirini, with no -⁠ler.

Where a verb has both, they can mean different things, and anlamak is the best example. Birbirimizi anlıyoruz: we understand each other, the words and the thinking. Anlaşıyoruz: we get on, we’ve agreed. You can understand each other perfectly and still not agree.

Birbirimizi anlıyoruz ama anlaşamıyoruz.— We understand each other, but we can’t agree.

5Gülüştüler: all at once

-⁠ış has a second job, and TDK names it right beside the first: an action done “mutually or together”. Sometimes it isn’t “each other” but “all together, at once, as a crowd”. The test is easy: try adding “all at once” in your head:

koşmak → koşuşmak— run → run about together
gülmek → gülüşmek— laugh → all laugh
bağırmak → bağrışmak— shout → all shout
Gol! Bütün tribün bağrıştı.— Goal! The whole stand roared.
Çocuklar bahçede koşuşuyor.— The children are running about in the garden.
Kerem’in sorusuna herkes gülüştü.— Everyone laughed at Kerem’s question.

In bağrışmak a vowel has dropped out of bağır — as burun becomes burnum: before an ending’s vowel, the second syllable squeezes up.

One last thing: not every -⁠ış can still be heard. Konuşmak, çalışmak, alışmak, yakışmak you learnt in Course 1 as ordinary words, and that’s what they stay — much as nobody hears “stand” and “under” in “understand”.

6Mesajlaşalım: “with each other”, from a noun

From a noun, “with each other” is built with -⁠laş / -⁠leş, by the two teams. A letter — write to each other; a message — text each other. There are so many that people make new ones as they go:

mektup “letter”, -⁠laş, -⁠tı, -⁠k — “we wrote to each other”.
Eski bir arkadaşımla hâlâ mektuplaşıyoruz.— An old friend and I still write each other letters.
Akşam mesajlaşalım.— Let’s text this evening.
Annemle her pazar telefonlaşırız.— Mum and I phone each other every Sunday.
Asansörde komşularla selamlaşırız.— We say hello to the neighbours in the lift.
Kerem’le Defne bütün gün şakalaştı.— Kerem and Defne joked around all day.
İki eski arkadaş bir kahvehanede dertleşti.— Two old friends sat in a coffee house and poured their hearts out.
Forvetler çok güzel paslaştı.— The forwards passed the ball between them beautifully.

Two words from this family are especially handy at work. Sözleşmek is from söz, “word”: “to give each other your word”, and more often “to arrange to meet”. Karşılaşmak is from karşı, “opposite”: to “run into” someone in the street, or to “meet” on the pitch:

Saat yedide buluşmak için sözleştik.— We arranged to meet at seven.
Dün sokakta eski öğretmenimle karşılaştım.— Yesterday I ran into my old teacher in the street.
Cumartesi iki takım karşılaşacak.— On Saturday the two teams meet.

And Lesson 22’s -⁠ma turns these verbs into nouns, some of which you’ll meet in any office. Lesson 23’s iş görüşmesi is a görüşme: a meeting where you and they look each other over. Anlaşma is an agreement, sözleşme a contract, karşılaşma a meeting of two teams — a match, as the news calls it:

Yarın sabah müşteriyle bir görüşmemiz var.— We have a meeting with the client tomorrow morning.
Sözleşmeyi imzaladık.— We’ve signed the contract.

And, to recognise: -⁠laş has a second job with no “each other” in it at all. After an adjective it means “become”: güzel — güzelleşmek, “get lovelier”, zor — zorlaşmak, “get harder”. Telling them apart is easy: an adjective has no “each other”.

Türkçe zorlaşıyor mu? — Hayır, güzelleşiyor!— Is Turkish getting harder? — No, it’s getting better!

7Türkiye up close: Fenerliyim — one city, three clubs

Hangi takımı tutuyorsun? — Lesson 24’s question will come at you anywhere: in a taxi, in a queue, in your first week at a new job. The answer is often one word, and you can build it yourself: Lesson 12’s -⁠lı, the same as in İstanbullu. Fenerliyim, Galatasaraylıyım, Beşiktaşlıyım — you don’t so much support a team here as come from it, like a home town.

A fener is a lighthouse. The one on Cape Fenerbahçe in Kadıköy was built in 1857, and it still shines.

The three İstanbul clubs, oldest first. Beşiktaş began in 1903 as a gymnastics society, Bereket Jimnastik Kulübü; its colours are black and white, and its nickname, Kara Kartallar, “the Black Eagles”, was shouted from the stands in 1941, so the story goes. Galatasaray was founded in 1905 by schoolboys — Ali Sami Yen and his classmates at Galatasaray High School; yellow and red, “the Lions”. Fenerbahçe came along in 1907 in Kadıköy, yellow and navy, “the Yellow Canaries”.

The last one you can read for yourself: fener is “a lamp, a lighthouse”, and bahçe is Lesson 2’s “garden”. The club was named after its neighbourhood, and its emblem came from the lighthouse on the point. Architects, by the way, know a third fener: in TDK, it’s the glazed lantern on top of a dome that lets the light in.

The loudest match of the season is Fenerbahçe against Galatasaray. It’s called the intercontinental derby: Fenerbahçe is from İstanbul’s Asian shore, Galatasaray from the European one. These are Lesson 5’s two shores, the ferry and the gulls, only now with a ball between them. They first played on 17 January 1909, and Galatasaray won 2–0. A derbi, in TDK, is a match between teams from the same city.

And if you don’t support anyone? Hiçbir takımı tutmuyorum is an honest answer, and nobody minds it. The conversation just rarely ends there.

8Dialogue: the window that won’t be

Remember the house in Üsküdar from Lesson 1? The owner wanted a big window onto the street, and the board won’t allow one. Today Kerem and Defne go to tell him “no”. The owner is Orhan Bey, and there’s a football scarf on his wall.

Orhan Bey:
Hoş geldiniz! Buyurun, gelin.
Kerem:
Hoş bulduk, Orhan Bey. Tanışalım: ben Kerem, Zehra Hanım’ın bürosundan. Bu da Defne Hanım.
Orhan Bey:
Memnun oldum. Telefonda çok konuştuk ama ilk kez yüz yüze görüşüyoruz.
Defne:
Bütün hafta e-postayla da yazıştık!
Orhan Bey:
Evet, evet. Eee, pencere ne oldu? Kurul ne dedi?
Kerem:
Kurula sorduk. Sokak tarafında büyük bir pencereye izin vermiyorlar.
Orhan Bey:
Olmaz! Ben her sabah pencerede çayımı içip sokağa bakmak istiyorum. Komşularla selamlaşmak istiyorum!
Kerem:
Anlıyorum ama ev tescilli. Cepheyi değiştiremeyiz.
Orhan Bey:
Bu ev benim evim! Ben bunu kabul etmem.
Defne:
Orhan Bey, duvardaki atkı… Bu akşam derbi var. Maçı izleyecek misiniz?
Orhan Bey:
Tabii! Babam bu takımı tuttu, dedem de tuttu. Ben de tutuyorum.
Defne:
Ben de! Geçen hafta son dakikada bir gol attık, hatırlıyor musunuz?
Orhan Bey:
Hatırlamaz mıyım! Bütün mahalle sokağa çıktı. Komşular kucaklaştı, çocuklar bağrıştı…
Kerem:
Defne, ben futboldan hiç anlamam…
Defne:
Sus! Orhan Bey, bir fikrim var. Bahçe tarafında büyük bir pencere yapalım. Kurul ona izin verir.
Orhan Bey:
Ama bahçeden sokağı göremem.
Defne:
Sokağı göremezsiniz, ama komşularınız bahçeye gelir. Maç akşamları pencerenin önünde hep beraber izlersiniz.
Orhan Bey:
Bahçede derbi… komşularla… Bu fikir güzel. Anlaştık!
Kerem:
Anlaştık mı? Gerçekten mi?
Orhan Bey:
Anlaştık. Gelin, tokalaşalım. Ama bir şartım var.
Kerem:
Buyurun, Orhan Bey?
Orhan Bey:
Bu akşam maçı benimle izleyeceksiniz. Siz de, Defne Hanım da.
Defne:
Tabii, gelirim!
Kerem:
Ama ben…
Orhan Bey:
Merak etmeyin, Kerem Bey. Bir maçta her şeyi öğrenirsiniz: kim kaleci, kim forvet, ofsayt ne…
Kerem:
Ofsayt ne?
Defne:
Bu akşam!

Count the “each other”s: görüşüyoruz, yazıştık, selamlaşmak, kucaklaştı, bağrıştı — that one’s “all at once” — Anlaştık and tokalaşalım, “let’s shake hands”, from toka, a handshake. And listen to how they talk. In front of a client Kerem calls his colleague Defne Hanım; in a whisper he says sen, and Defne answers in kind: Sus! And if you remember why Can didn’t get the job in Course 1’s last lesson, none of this will surprise you: football settled it again.

9Reading

Every year the office plays football against the engineers who work on its sites. On Monday Kerem sent everyone an e-mail about the match. Read it the way you’d read work e-mail: the whole thing first, and open a translation only where you’re stuck.

Konu: Cumartesi maçı

An e-mail: the match against the engineers — and two hard hats.

Merhaba arkadaşlar,
Biliyorsunuz, mühendisler bizim şantiyelerimizde çalışıyor. Her yıl onlarla bir halı sahada karşılaşıyoruz.
Geçen yıl beş gol attılar, biz sadece bir gol attık. Bu yıl üç hafta antrenman yaptık.
Cumartesi saat tam onda iki takım sahada tokalaştı.
Hakemimiz Zehra Hanım’dı. Biliyorsunuz, o her şeyi affeder, geç kalmayı affetmez.
Mühendislerden ikisi beş dakika geç geldi. İlk on dakika kenarda beklemek zorunda kaldılar.
Ben kaleciydim. Futboldan hiç anlamıyorum ama kalede durmak kolay, diye düşündüm.
Kolay değilmiş!
İlk yarıda mühendisler iki gol attı.
Ama Defne forvetti. Orta sahadaki arkadaşlarla çok güzel paslaştı ve iki gol attı.
Devre arasında iki iki berabereydik.
Devre arasında Defne su içmek için kenara gitti.
Mühendislerin çantalarının yanında iki baret vardı. Baretlerin üstünde bizim büronun adı vardı.
— Bunlar bizim baretler!
Mühendislerin kalecisi geldi.
— Geçen ay şantiyede bulduk. Sahibini aradık ama bulamadık.
Defne ile kaleci birbirine baktı, sonra gülüştüler.
Zehra Hanım da baretleri gördü. Zehra Hanım ile Defne bakıştı. Kimse gülmedi.
Son dakika. Mühendisler üç, biz iki.
Defne topu aldı, şut çekti… ve gol! Üç üç!
Bütün takım koşuştu, bağrıştı, kucaklaştı. Ben de kalemden koştum.
Zehra Hanım düdüğü çaldı. Maç berabere bitti.
Maçtan sonra iki takım bir çay bahçesinde buluştu. Mühendislerle şakalaştık, çok güldük.
Gelecek yıl yine oynamak için sözleştik.
Zehra Hanım baretleri aldı.
— Bugün hiçbir şey kaybetmedik. İki baret bile kazandık!
Pazartesi görüşürüz! Kerem
Not: Kaleci olmak hiç kolay değil. Gelecek yıl ben forvet olmak istiyorum.

A halı saha is literally a “carpet pitch”: a small pitch with artificial turf, fenced in with netting. Kenar is an edge, as in Lesson 22’s cam kenarı. Kalemden is “out of my goal”, kale with a possessive and the ablative — not kalem, a pen. And Not at the end is Lesson 25’s P.S., as in Zeynep’s letter.

1Who was the referee?

2Whose hard hats did the engineers have?

3How did the match end?

10The lesson’s new words

These are the words the lesson brought in for the first time. Takım, saha, hakem, taraftar, buluşmak and görüşmek you know from Course 1, and Lesson 13’s oyuncu is a player as well as an actor. The -⁠ış and -⁠laş forms the lesson only showed in passing aren’t here.

New words

  • golgoal (scored)
  • kalegoal (the frame); fortress
  • kalecigoalkeeper
  • formashirt, kit
  • atkıscarf
  • defansdefence, defender
  • orta sahamidfield, midfielder
  • forvetforward, striker
  • rakiprival, opponent
  • devre arasıhalf-time
  • paspass
  • şut çekmekto shoot
  • kırmızı kartred card
  • ofsaytoffside
  • penaltıpenalty
  • yenmekto beat (someone)
  • yenilmekto lose (to someone)
  • galibiyetwin
  • yenilgidefeat
  • diğerother
  • tanışmakto meet, get to know each other
  • bakışmakto look at each other
  • anlaşmakto agree; to get on
  • öpüşmekto kiss (each other)
  • birbirieach other
  • koşuşmakto run about together
  • gülüşmekto all laugh
  • bağrışmakto all shout
  • tribünstand (in a stadium)
  • mektuplaşmakto write to each other
  • mesajlaşmakto text each other
  • telefonlaşmakto phone each other
  • selamlaşmakto say hello to each other
  • şakalaşmakto joke around
  • dertleşmekto pour out one’s troubles to each other
  • paslaşmakto pass the ball between them
  • sözleşmekto arrange to meet
  • karşılaşmakto run into; to play each other
  • görüşmemeeting
  • anlaşmaagreement
  • sözleşmecontract
  • imzalamakto sign
  • güzelleşmekto get lovelier
  • zorlaşmakto get harder
  • fenerlighthouse; lamp
  • derbiderby
  • yüz yüzeface to face
  • yazışmakto write to each other, correspond
  • kabul etmekto accept
  • mahalleneighbourhood
  • tokalaşmakto shake hands
  • şartcondition
  • halı sahafive-a-side pitch

This lesson’s words as flashcards →

11Say it yourself

Out loud first, then the answer. Each one has an “each other” in it, and every time an ending says it. Getting it wrong and then checking is exactly what this is for.

we met yesterday
do you two know each other?
the players shook hands
we looked at each other
let’s text this evening
it’s a deal!

12Check yourself

Six items. A miss shows you the right answer straight away, and why.

1Match each picture to its word.

2Fill in the right form: “Yesterday I met my new neighbour.”

Dün yeni komşumla ?

3How do you say “we looked at each other”?

4Fill in the right word: “Goal! The whole stand was hugging.”

Gol! Bütün tribün ?

5Birbirimizi anlıyoruz ama anlaşamıyoruz means…

6Which club is from İstanbul’s Asian shore?

13Homework

Two to say aloud, three to write. Write by hand or in your phone’s notes, then read it aloud: the ear finds what the eye let through.

  1. Say tanışmak out loud in the past: tanıştık, tanıştınız, tanıştılar; then the negative and the question: tanışmadık, tanıştınız mı? — and the same with anlaşmak.
  2. Say each in one word: Birbirimize baktık, Birbirimize yazdık, Birbirimize güldük, Birbirimizi gördük. And Birbirimizi seviyoruz — can you?
  3. How did you meet a close friend? Write six to eight sentences: where you met (tanıştık), how you keep in touch (mesajlaşıyoruz, telefonlaşıyoruz) and where you meet up (buluşuyoruz).
  4. Write an e-mail, as Kerem did, about a match or a game you watched or played: who played whom (karşılaştı), how it ended (yendi, yenildi or berabere bitti) and one moment when everyone bağrıştı or kucaklaştı.
  5. A look back at Lesson 1: the rules of a game you know — football, chess, Lesson 4’s backgammon. Five sentences with -⁠malı, -⁠mamalı and zorunda.